As somebody who had lived only within a limited group, Esther instinctively tried to protect the values of elven society. Simultaneously, it made her want to shun alternative values. Anything she didn’t understand caused her discomfort. For her own peace of mind, she would reject anything outside her worldview.
By making an effort to respect and embrace other cultures, she has learned to see things that I do not. She wanted to teach me about what she has found.